By: Rebecca Leighton Burke
From: Victoria Hamilton's Vintage Kitchen Mysteries - Book 1: May 2012.
Do any of you have younger siblings? Do you worry about them, even when they're full grown? Well, I still worry about my little sister, Jaymie Leighton. She keeps telling me she's thirty-two and can look after herself, and I know that's true, but still...
I should introduce myself. My name is Rebecca Leighton Burke, (aka Becca) and I run RLB China Matching out of my home in London, Ontario, Canada. Though I was born and raised in Queensville, Michigan, a tiny town along the St. Clair River, I married a Canadian and moved north. Even after we divorced, I stayed. It worked out, because Grandma Leighton lives in London, and since our mom and dad moved down to Boca, I look after things for her. She's a feisty octogenarian who lives in a retirement home, but I manage her finances and make sure she has everything she needs. Jaymie comes up and helps by taking Grandma shopping and running errands.
Bone china is the most beautiful invention humankind ever came up with. It's versatile and lovely, but utilitarian, too. I suppose my love of bone china explains why I don't understand Jaymie's obsession with old junk; her collection of vintage tins, Pyrex dishes, twentieth century cookbooks, old kitchen utensils and the like, puzzles me.
But back to sisters. When Jaymie was born I was almost fifteen; Mom handed me this tiny, squirming doll wrapped in a pink blanket, and I just fell in love. She was so sweet, and I loved feeding her, bathing her and babysitting her when mom and dad went out. Looking back, I realize I almost felt like her mother at times. I still worry about her like a mother hen. Jaymie is kind of reserved, and doesn't give her heart easily. When she fell head over heels for Joel Anderson I was happy she had found someone. I didn't even mind when he moved into the Leighton family house in Queensville with her. I knew that step was a big deal for her. I think she would have married him if he'd asked her, but he never did.
I'm just so afraid Joel's desertion has soured Jaymie on love, you know? I don't want her to miss out on anything, and that is from a two-time loser at marriage. She deserves a husband and kids and everything else good that life can offer. I feel so helpless, and I want to rip pretty little Heidi Lockland's bleached hair out by the roots for stealing Joel away.
So what I need to know is... is it normal to be so angry at someone who hurt a sibling? Have any of you had to watch someone you love suffer through a broken heart? And what did you do, sit on the sidelines, give advice, or try to help? I'm just not sure how to handle it.
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